Community Guidelines

Be a real person, looking for a real relationship

This platform exists for people seriously looking for a long-term relationship. That's the whole premise — not a per-profile choice, but what everyone here has already opted into by joining. Profiles and messages that don't reflect that get removed.

Real photos only

No AI-generated or synthetic images. No swimwear, underwear, or shirtless photos — every upload is checked before it goes live, and this is enforced automatically, not just a stated rule.

No solicitation

Asking another member for money, gifts, or a commercial arrangement of any kind is not tolerated. Messages are automatically screened for this and flagged for review.

Respect

Harassment, threats, hate speech, and abuse of any kind are not tolerated. If someone makes you uncomfortable, use Report or Block from their profile — both work immediately.

Reporting

If you see a profile or message that violates these guidelines, report it. Reports are reviewed — this isn't a decorative button.